Not to hijack your thread, Blue, but Steve-- I did look up apartments for my H and told him about them. No falling to the floor in shock for him. Just a dismissal that it was probably a POS because of the price. And I also told him that even though it costs money for him to MO (rather than cake eat in the basement or the office) we could afford it and it was dumb to make a decision about something like this on $$. He agreed and I think he's looked at apartments online since then. So, I don't think that is in play in my sitch.
And, literally every time he's said he thinks he should MO in this current go-round I have said is this it? Is this your decision? Because OK, then, go. Do it. And he just backs down and says no, I don't know what I want. (I'm not saying it out of DB, maybe. I'm saying it out of FU anger and ready to get my life moving w/o him. Maybe I need to be calmer and use the actual phrase.)
I think you just proved my point! 😁
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
