If it isn't fear, then tell him this:

H,

I apologize for what I said. I heard you loud and clear. I will respect your privacy and I ask the same in return. I will no longer contact you unless absolutely necessary and I request that our communication only happen via email.

KC

Then leave him alone and live your life.

Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa