I did not expect to be back so soon over this --- I've apparently opened a big can of worms in the worst way... stirred the hornets nest.
I'm going to need some guidance - he just blew up my phone.
H: So why change now?
H: There is something you need to do, I have asked you for some time and you have yet to do it. You have still not learned anything from your self help books.
H: What i mean by that is you have taking money from an account that doesn't belong to you held up and account of money that I have before w got married meanwhile I am paying on a timeshare I won't use and your sons car that I wont use. So what you you learned really?
FYI the timeshare was 100% his purchase choice and he knows it. Whether he uses it or not is not my issue but both of our names are on it. The verbal agreement was he would pay it off and then I would take over the yearly maintenance fees and keep ownership.
The car was his idea all along that he pay off the car and sign it over to my son --- that was guilt talking when he offerred that.
Meanwhile I'm paying on an 11k bed that we just bought... YUP that's right 11k.
^^^^ both of those were an oral agreement as he has no atty and we have no legal binding agreement.
Yes, tech the money was brought to the M with him but the put in a joint account and my atty says its marital funds and I needed leverage so it was locked down.
Apparently my confession of how I'm working on myself triggered something in him... and I'm getting anger for the first time in 2 months. The - so why change now is I'm sure a rhetorical question.
But, he is asking me about the fairness of our agreement. I could offer to take the car payments --- I'm not sure how i could handle it with my son heading to college... BUT, I know that's not what he wants... he wants the 24K. My response - "I hear you." "I will get back to you later this weekend" <<<<<????
