Here's a thought for you. Instead of worrying about what he thinks or what he is up to. Shift the focus to you.
What do you deserve? What is your self-worth? How much do you value being respected? What is within your control when people overstep?
You really need to set boundaries.
For me, I've been down the road of forgiving my XW and allowing her back into my life. It had a lot to do with our children. I have no regrets for the good years that came of it.
This time, my dealbreaker was there being OM in the picture. Once the truth of OM being in the picture was revealed to me, I flipped my sitch on its head. I emailed my XW letting her know that I am aware of the truth. I let her know we will not be interacting outside of communication regarding our children and all interaction is to be done via email. I removed her from all my Social Media and blocked her. I communicated to her that I will on discussing anything regarding our children with her, and her alone. I removed her mom from Social Media and cut off all communication with her mom. This happened 2 weeks ago, and I reiterated the boundary with her mom this week. My XW has been completely respectful and I only had to send her call to voicemail once.
You have more control of your sitch than you realize.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
