Wayfarer, I wanted to thank you for your kind note on my thread a bit ago. It means a lot to know you're reading along. I too am keeping up with your thread, though I am often quiet.
Originally Posted by wayfarer
And taking this tortoise pace is helping me deal with my anger and sadness over the A and working towards forgiveness.
Given all I've read here, this seems so smart. Sometimes I think I fall back into thinking this period is waiting, is static, but really there's a lot going on under the surface for me, even if, maybe to others, it doesn't appear to be the case. Would you mind saying more on how you're personally dealing with the anger and sadness and working toward forgiveness? Has your approach changed over time? Is it mostly through IC, or happening at a more conscious or subconscious level? Just curious, if you'd like to reflect.
