Your last post is why I gave you the advice I gave you on the mail situation. AT a minimum you should have been gone when he came to get his mail. Seeing him. His indifferent attitude (see how well detachment works!). All that set you back, and you weren't very far forward to begin with.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018