I visited my in-laws for the first time today after news broke. Frankly I’ve been so busy dealing with life with three kids on my own that I just haven’t been able to push myself to visit them and have the difficult conversation. It was a nice visit. My in laws are good people.
And then H texted me at night: “Mom said you visited. Don't understand why you wouldn't tell me y'all are going to [name of town].”
When I first saw the text notification with the beginning of the sentence, I actually thought he would thank me for taking the kids to visit his parents. Turns out I was so wrong lol. There he goes again. Always playing the victim.
I’m not going to respond to his text.
If he brings it up next time in person, what’s a good way to respond?
“Why would I need to tell you?” “You seem upset, I don’t understand why it upsets you.” “It’s none of your business.”
