Originally Posted by KitCat
NOW, he is texting me at 9pm asking me to leave the stuff outside.

I'm not responding...

You respond and ignore emotionally, creating drama. This is another opportunity to detach. "They're outside." All done in two words, no need to every communicate over these again.

Originally Posted by KitCat
He called... I answered... discussed options... said he would figure something out.

Another live interaction. Skip if you can. The stove is hot.

Originally Posted by KitCat
I did ask for favor today --------------- blew me off.

Favors lead to more reasons to contact when your goal is less contact.