Its a rare opportunity in life to find motivation really evaluate who you are and who you want to be.
I certainly agree with you here. If there's one thing keeping my head above water, it's knowing that for as hard as this is, I'm going to come out the other side so much stronger and so much more aware of my problematic relationship patterns. It's no surprise I've had many relationships end up not working out for the same reasons - I never addressed the underlying issues until now.
I'll look up Peter Crone, thank you for the suggestion.