Originally Posted by CWarrior
Originally Posted by KitCat
Apparently THEY have been FB official relationship since JUNE 4. He's moved on... But, for the two of them to do it like this and we aren't even divorced... he won't even get an atty. WTH????

I thought you asked him not to D you and helped release money for him to buy a house. What's his motivation to D? I was similarly in no hurry to complete D once the custody and money and assets were settled. It meant nothing to me and seemed to mean a bunch to my ex-wife. Once your attorney pushes terms for legal S or D, he'll probably attorney up, too. D is waiting whenever you want it.


I have told him I do not want this D.

I never released funds... they are still locked up. I had an order drafted that if he signed he could have immediate access to 1/2 of the broker funds and acknowledge that those were part of the final settlement... BUT, he never asked for the paperwork.

My atty is not pushing anything. She knows I don't want the D. So we just sit idle.

All I can do is go NC. Find a life coach or something... keep reading.