Oh man KC, you just keep right on laying your hand on the hot stove. How many times do you have to get burned? He's fully invested in OW, you already know this so why do you keep sending yourself spinning over every new "revelation" that's really just the same old news? I know it's tough to let go, but you've got to find a way. You can't keep temperature checking him like you did in this latest visit. All he sees is desperation, and that's not attractive.