Oh Wayfarer, I always have a little giggle at your posts. I don’t know if that’s appropriate given that you’re in such a hdfk situation but you do always bring an humour to your posts! At face value, your H seems to be a model husband....but what on earth is going on in his head! I know you’ve had payment of the July rent as a milestone in your head...when does that happen? I do think his behaviours are very positive, and “going public” seems to be a good step forwards, even if it’s still feeling like more limbo for you. Hang in there!


M:49 H:49
T:20 M:18
D:16 D:14

EA: Feb 2019-May 2020
Separated: Mar-early Aug 2020
H asked to reconcile: Jun 2020
EA relapse: Oct/Nov 2020
Recon #2: since Nov 2020