DnJ has wisely asked the right question: How is your GAL going? Impacted by Covid? What creative ways are you finding to keep the focus on yourself?
I'll be honest Gordie, this is not surprising to me. She pulled it together enough to get you to stop moving out, but I never felt that she did the hard work, only the bare essentials to keep you in the game.
Sorry if that sounds harsh, I truly do not mean it to, and I'm very sorry that my gut instinct on this has proven correct.
Yes, back to basics is all you can do.
Wishing you peace and strength. Loving kindness, meditation, google, will help you. You cannot help her, but you already know that.
xoxoxo
Last edited by bttrfly; 06/24/2012:11 PM.
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver