Just an update, I have retained an attorney and I am moving forward with the divorce. Got an angry message from the soon to be ex when she found out...
Then late on Father's day I get a message saying it looks like we aren't talking anymore (I have completely stopped all communication now) and then goes on to wish me a Happy Father's day and hoped I had a nice weekend.
That message sure was odd considering what she had sent previously. At any rate, I continue to work on myself every day. I'm doing well and focusing on the positives in my life!