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I’m really sorry you are going through this right now. In my situation we had separated for a little while and then got back together for about a year and a half. She then wanted to separate again doing the nesting option. I wanted no part of that and said let’s just divorce then. I’m not religious so to me it’s just a piece of paper. If you don’t want to go through with another separation it again it is completely understandable. Take some time to think about it.