Hi SteveS, a week from tomorrow is my W's birthday. I have no intention of wishing her a Happy Birthday. Although she was pleasant enough this past Sunday during a dog swap, she didn't wish me a happy Father's Day as she never failed to do in the past. She fired me as her husband and there is no other choice but to move on, and that would include not looking for opportunities to reach out when there is nothing to gain from doing it. She has an OM to do the birthday wishing for this year. My birthday gift to her this year will be for me to not do what she's probably afraid I will do, wish her a Happy Birthday.