Been a couple of days since reporting in. Very good weekend do my thing and being out and about (beach, boat and biking) with the boys. I've received texts from her about stuff and have taken my time answering her. No talk or energy towards her but she seems to be ramping up the want for contact. She's asked me about a bike rack for her car, what I think is the best options, brands, where did we go to the beach (we go every saturday) reporting in wo me asking or texting her about her weekend. Just weird. Does she think when the D is final we are going to be friends?

Or is it a sign and I should ignore and stay on the path of LRT and going dark to see if she is really being drawn in.

Attny's have let me know the house appraisal company will be calling to set up a date to come to the house. The pension appraisal is going on now so all of that is another step closer to signing papers

It is what it is but it is just interesting to see a jump in communication from her.

NJ


Together 10
Married 8
Bomb drop 2/19
Separated since 6/18
Papers started 9/19
Two kids 5 and 7, boys

im in the house, she is local and at her parents, boys split time

me:47
her:38