Here's a good line I read recently: "it is not things that trouble us, but our judgments about things".
You need to get out in the social scene, interact with women, and get your mojo back.
I was walking through a park 3 weeks back as the sun set and it hit me: I give myself my own juice. Sounds a littlle cocky but it's true. I tell myself this and I know that I can run my business, hit it hard in the gym, smile at women, read, write, play, laugh and do anything I want. Or do nothing and be happy about it. Forget about her and focus on your life.
This is so right! Today she gave the kids pasta for breakfast because everything else was out. Perfectly timed for me to take the kids today so I have to do all the grocery shopping...
I have decided to get tinder after summer vacation. I want to focus on the kids during vacation and during the weeks I don't have kids I may as well practice my real life flirting skills. Atm reading a book on parenting but will start the 3% mann during summer.
On the 2 days she wanted to switch I haven't answered yet and probably won't unless she brings it up again. If she does I will say no to any days involving my rental.
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021