Here's a good line I read recently: "it is not things that trouble us, but our judgments about things".
You need to get out in the social scene, interact with women, and get your mojo back.
I was walking through a park 3 weeks back as the sun set and it hit me: I give myself my own juice. Sounds a littlle cocky but it's true. I tell myself this and I know that I can run my business, hit it hard in the gym, smile at women, read, write, play, laugh and do anything I want. Or do nothing and be happy about it. Forget about her and focus on your life.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.