Update

Apparently she never went to the rental but she seems to understand that we have to come to some sort of an agreement. Which is good.
I said I still want to buy her share of the house. She said she doesn't want to loose out on market value.
I mentioned splitting assets. She said she didn't think that would be a problem since we're still friends. I didn't answer.

Then she started asking about a particular week during the vacation, if we could switch some days with the kids.
I said those particular days are hard to switch cuz I have rented a car and mentioned she has a long week off later.
She said well maybe I am looking at a trip. We never really ended the conversation and I didn't say no or yes to switching days.
It's obvious shes planning something with om. So I am definitely not keen to help her out now that we already agreed on particular dates during the summer.


Side note /journal
It still gets at me when I see how she's packing all her new sexy underwear for a couple of days with OM.
She has got several new summer outfits and she really is very very beautiful.
Focusing on me and the kids!


Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021