Sage — I’m so sorry he responded like that to you. I tend to agree with LH that your husband doesn’t seem on solid footing. I can imagine how frustrating that would be...having to stay cautious when it looks like there are finally positive things happening that you should be able to depend upon.


I'm 40, H is 36. No kids. No infidelity of which I'm aware.
Mini BD January 2020 -- not sure if he wants to try anymore
BD March 2020 -- separation