Separated 11 wks, WAH wants to reconcile (part 4)

[Pommy99]

this all sounds very positive, Pommy. Would he be open to MC? This stuff is SO HARD, expert input could be useful?

Dilly, I have thought a lot about this but I’m almost too frightened to ask him. I’m not sure why. There are a number of possible reasons I guess:
1. Our last attempt at MC (led by him) was a disaster and put us both off MC
2. I’m not sure any more what our issues are that need resolving.
3. In some ways MC seems too heavy right now. I think we’re both battle weary and could do with a break from R talk
4. I’m burying my head in the sand or brushing everything under the carpet because it’s easy

I’m wondering if we just enjoy this part of reconciliation and then once he moves back, we get some MC to support us thru the process?