If I am not married to a girl, and she is cold-shouldering me while having a dude living with her. I am out. Maybe the door is still open for the future with that girl if her situation changes, but I am moving on and dating other people.
We are not suggesting you just cut ties and never talk to him again. (ok, maybe I was a little at first), but I certainly am telling you to meet other people. Date other people. Don't sit and wait for him to get his crap together. Future behavior is foretold by relevant past behavior. He has pretty much taught you how he is going to behave in the future...............
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018