I am not ready to just throw the towel in and walk away as I know I have caused my share of the problems in this situation by not being healthy myself however I am absolutely wanting to detach and get a clear head.
A healthy you, AWOAFWL would not stick around for 5 years eating breadcrumbs and hoping this man will change.
You want to be healthy, start doing healthy things. Simple, but hard at the same time.
Just tell him what you want and if he says no, no matter how he says it or how many words, you walk.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
