He is coming next week to pick up mail and personal paperwork from file cabinet. Will get his paperwork from his atty from his previous D trigger him to bring up our D?
Maybe. And so? After he picks up his things from your porch--no live interactions--if he texts you about D you can wait a few hours to reply, as usual. Ask "Does having a chat with my ex about D align with my interests?" If no, then simplest is to ignore him or direct him to your attorney. Strip him of his power over you.
Originally Posted by KitCat
Then the other half of me is like... what if I fast track everything... and he was really trying to sit with his feelings and figure things out but I derail that by pushing it forward?
If he were on the fence, losing you as Plan B would generally make you more attractive.
(I haven't seen much to indicate he's on the fence.)
