He left. He is involved with someone else. There has been zero effort to make any kind of positive moved toward me... NOT EVEN HINTING AT IT.
I will get through S18 Grad Party because if MIL is there and my H's side of the family I want to keep it as stress free as possible.
I had already planned to tell H when he comes by next week that I understand his concerns about coming to the party and while I wish he would participate the choice is 100% up him and walk away. I don't want him to feel any pressure from me.... and who knows maybe its OW who pressured him into having a change in his plans that up until this week were still in him coming.
I'm tired of seconding guessing myself.
After the party I will contact my atty and move things forward.
