NJ, I have to admit, reading your posts is painful. I think you have to distinct sides to you. A logistical side that is pragmatic and knows what needs to be done. And a romantic side of you that thinks that by being nice, being sweet, by saying and doing the right things she will magically change her mind.
The time for romanticism is over. I am really starting to think that the poster that said her recent "interest" in putting the family back together was more about what was going on with whomever else is in her life, than actually wanting to try to get back together. That's why she seized on something minor (how you corrected one of the kids) and blew it up into her reason for pulling the plug. That is why that was confusing to you, because it didn't make sense.
I know you are reluctantly moving toward D, but I think that is the romantic side of you. So let me asked the logistical side of you a question, try to keep romanticism out of it: Do you really want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
