I'm about to go to bed May, but I just checked in here to see if you were okay. I know I can be cold and too harsh in my posts sometimes, and that I have caused you some pain doing that before. Just know that this crazy lady in the UK with her tea-cup in bed is utterly disgusted by your H and very admiring of how you are handling yourself. And I only know this stuff because I had it drummed into me - HARD and OFTEN - both here and by my IC.
Thanks Alison-- I'm doing better today than yesterday and a lot of that is because of your words. I also so admire you and your strength in how you are dealing with your own situation. I find it soooooo interesting how we are coming at things from such different angles and I think because of that-- even though I fight against it sometimes-- your advice is really helping me to find balance. It is exactly what I need. Thank you... I hope you get a good night's sleep!
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing
