KC, I do not think your problem is not being empathetic to him and understanding your past mistakes. I'd say those kinds of books are preaching to the choir because you have that down pat.
Focus on books that help you move on, healthy and happy. Your biggest struggle is in letting go.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
