Thanks a lot for answering CW! Really!
Have spoken a lot less about my sitch in general lately, because DB and I find seeing IC over zoom isn't that effective.
So nice to get som dialog. So thanks!!

Yeah about kids I did say it was W's day and other times this had happened she has always been fine with it.
Though I absolutely agree, the responsible parent should always make the decision.

I will suggest we buy one each. Thanks!

Today she told me she is going to look at an apartment. Rental.
She looked reakly sad when she said it and said it is really small.
My guess is she went online yesterday while she was mad.
So childish.


She sort of caught me by surprise during breakfast and I just said:
Ok. That's good, I guess.
Those last two words... crazy


Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021