I do apologise if calling it emotional abuse was a step too far. I was so frustrated reading your post. Only you can decide if that’s what it is or not. Nevertheless, I still believe that taking space from your H will help you get some clarity.
Try googling ‘chump lady he can’t decide’ and ‘chump lady he loves me’.
Big, big, big hugs to you.
PS. It just occurred to me that H’s renewed interest in OW is probably because she has made herself unavailable and seems to be moving on. Take from that what you will. We all want what we can’t have.
