I do notice a difference in his behaviour after he spends time with X. He’s either exhausted and subdued, or hyper and naughty. He often comes home saying dada gave me chocolate or ice cream, or watched TV all day, or bought me new toys. It doesn’t sound like there’s a lot of discipline over there. Which doesn’t bother me. I’m glad he’s having a good time and the visitation periods are so short that I don’t think it matters. My boundaries and expectations are firm and I think S2 likes to test them after spending time with his dad.
