May,

Scout and Sam nailed it. Enough of his charade. You have been strong and done all you can. He seems to be deep in the tunnel and it's time he gets what he's asking for, except it will be done on YOUR terms. Your H reminds me of my W. They want out, but don't want to be "blamed" for any of the carnage that will be created. It simply doesn't work that way.

Stay strong!

WMLC