It has been a week since my H told me he wanted to tell the girls about the person he is seeing. He had them for most of last week and so far, the children have not said anything to me. I suspect he hasn't told them.
I don't know if it makes much difference. I am not going to broach it with the children (unless he mentions it first) but am a little on tender hooks waiting for them to mention something. I would be interested in hearing thoughts as to reasons he might have decided against it.
I think you all know my H well enough to know that he was comfortable with the way things were (he had his flat, could be single and out and about when he wanted, he could have his kids when he wanted, and here I am paying for this big old house that he doesn't want me to sell) ...
I suspect (personally) it was two fold - he was lashing out at me for turning to his mum instead of him when I needed counsel on D13 and he was getting pressure from the OW to bring her out of the shadows.
