NO, I would definitely always prefer to know the truth, no latter how hurtful. He didn’t exactly tell me, his lies just got so transparent that there was nothing left to do but call him on it and he finally admitted to it. And I am glad I know, 100 %.
Originally Posted by may22
Originally Posted by HopeCA
I think that he probably wants me pining for him despite the fact that he has moved on. He made several patronizing remarks to me today that made me feel that way. “I hope you’ll still be able to have a nice day today” and “I want to start to prepare you for things that will be hard for you”. It’s insulting and it’s always seemed like he likes picturing me crying over him.
Hope, USE THIS! That f-you feeling you get when he says crap like that? Use it to fuel your attitude towards him. It may be a fake-it-til-you-make-it type of situation, but reading that infuriated me and I soooooooo want to picture you looking at him all cool and calm and gorgeous with one eyebrow raised, like PLEASE. GTF over yourself, dude.
Thanks May. ME. TOO. That is definitely the facial expression I had when I read those texts. I’ll have to see him this evening for pick up/drop off of D4 and if he gives me any more of that crap, he’ll see it for himself.
I do not like the idea of him trying to keep me in my place. And I do not like the idea of him using me to absolve himself of guilt. Not one bit.
