Originally Posted by KitCat

From now on sticking to things only about me.


YES!!!!!!


Originally Posted by KitCat
I have no idea what his relationship status is...

Nope I got an email receipt because my email is still apparently tied to his CC Square charges??? So I got to be informed he took her to a winery and what they had and what they took home. This was our thing. We did this frequently. Prior to me he had no interest I wine and would have never done this.

I have blocked them both on Facebook as well as blocking his fake profile. I'm doing the best I can to not be bombarded.

I ignored his text today.

It's just hard:

1) goes to the podunk out of the way town which was my store that I introduced him to so that he gets to now BUY here these amazing bath bombs.
2) he asks for the drink recipie from our amazing vacation.
3) now he is taking her to local wineries and buying my exact taste in wine.

It just seems like he is trying so hard to "recreate us".

I get it. It means nothing. One has nothing to do with the other. How will he ever miss me if he is just recreating me?


NOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!! What happened to focusing on you? You got a simple email notification and once again it sent you spinning off into a pit of despair just like every other email, phone call and text you get from him. Picture that STOP SIGN in your head and STOP THE SPINNING. Did you pick up The Happiness Trap and read it? You could really use some of the techniques in it. Do get it if you haven't.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57