Moving On

[Pommy99]

May, oh boy, I’m reeling from what I’ve read tonight. I’m so sorry that he’s done this again. You deserve so much better. I want to write a proper reply but it’s midnight here. H is feeling the consequences of his choice to end the affair, and the prospect that he’s lost AP forever. He now needs to experience the other side: the consequences of leaving you and all that that entails. Not continue to have this pseudo-family life and home-comforts. I feel like I would be insistent on him leaving, physically removing himself from the family home, living with the reality and enormity of his choices. It’s for your health as well. Keep strong May. Your R may feel like it is back where it was in Jan , but you as a person have grown since then and you are better equipped to deal with this than you may believe. Sending hugs xx