just DB. You're so worried about her, but you should be worried about Curtis 2.0. Put all that energy into you, you work, your GAL, your happiness, your growth.
You are trying to control, like the others said. You are right there in the middle of conflict with her instead of being the lighthouse...No more long talks, no more worrying about her, no more lies and garbage.
You need NC to find and heal yourself.
Drop the expectations, do what is attractive, etc. I could go on and on, but just do DB basics my man.
Good luck.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
