Tell them you both love them and that the D has NOTHING to do with them. NOTHING! MAke sure that the kiddos do not blame themselves...
THIS
Do not get into with the W in front of the kids during telling them. Do not air the dirty laundry in front of the kids. Your goal with them is to make this as painless at it possibly can be. If they cry, if she cries, you be a rock emotionally. You can break down later. Your role during this discussion is to comfort them.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
