We typically advise LBSs to stay in the house. The thing that complicates this for you is the incarceration. I am not sure if you are willing to divulge the nature of your conviction, but the reason I hesitate to advise is that I am afraid if you provoke your W, she may trump up accusations to get a RO. That could greatly complicate your situation and obviously have implications for your probation. I guess you need to tread lightly here.
IN the meantime, keep giving her time and space. GAL, 180s, and detach! Those should be your focus right now. Learn all you can about those aspects, and focus on you. Also, continue to be the best father you can be.
You really only have one choice here....and that is to let her go. So let her go to get her back. Trying to force a R will only push her further away. Remove all pressure and pursuit. And whatever you do do not start any more R talks! Even if it is "out of character". One of the first rules of DB is to not start R talks, and to listen and validate if she does.
I would look into what it would take for you to move successfully under the terms of your probation in case it come s to that.
Shane, you've been through a lot. You may want to look into some IC. You are dealing with a lot of things right now.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
