Scout's QLC journey #4

[Gerda]

I always walk the fine line between sharing information and avoiding mayhem, misery and manipulation.

I don't want to do an app like family wiz..rd because I don't want my H to know that much and he mostly doesn't ask.

But if I was actively coparenting like you are, I might do that so that the stuff is posted and recorded but you don't have to talk to him.

For something like this, I would arrange with the daycare yourself to inform you of all things, that's done, so you don't have to tell H to tell you. If you want to have record that you are including him, just say, "Daycare let me know that S had a better behavior day. I also confirmed that I don't want soiled undies coming home; you can let them know if you have a different policy for days he goes home with you. Thanks."

My experience is that children are weaponized by the MLCer every chance they get. The less the better, but keep records of EVERYTHING for custody decisions/changes.