Ouch, FS, that hurts. Hard not to feel rejected even if you don't want him back. And also hard to think of our Hs with someone else to keep them company when we are alone. It's horrible. In the long run I believe we will be the happier ones though, because we didn't lie, cheat and behave immorally. By the way, when I'm on a dating app I ALWAYS swipe left for pilots, there's a reason they're notorious for catting around...

I'm glad things are a little better with D13, the teenage years are rough. My ds2 only talks to me in the car, I have to try hard to think of reasons to drag him out with me though he usually says no...