DB'ing while living in with a WAS/MLC husband

[BlueSea]

Thank you Steve - as always excellent advice especially this: "Slow down Bluesea - Take a wait and see approach"

It is always my tendency to rush forward.

I will keep my emotions in check around any type of celebration that OW is really gone. 3 months sounds like the longest stretch ever right now...but knowing that to continue to DB is the right approach is good guidance... this I can do. I do rely alot on you and the advice here to breadcrumb me to the next spot.

I don't think he can hide or take this any deeper, if he goes out for an extended period of time, I am going to assume what it is. What is good is that I am detached enough to know there is wisdom to asking him to leave if all this OW business is still going on. I don't think I could have done that before.

Will lay low with zero expectations. Give him space, assume that he is trying, but also be aware/suspicious. What I do appreciate is that he is acting human again, not scary. If he dips back, then I will know there is another storm coming.