I'm still trying to catch up on what's been happening with you - mainly skim reading - so I may have missed a bit here and there.
Online dating ... you go girl. And it sounds like you're having a blast with it. You are such a different person from the one I first met here. Have you been inundated with the shirtless men in their 20's (great abs, no brains) ?!?!?
Originally Posted by Dillydaf
I am quite frightened of him actually, don't want to poke him into bad behaviour until I have my divorce ducks in a row
I am completely with you on this. I get told that I let my H get away with far too much, but honestly, sometimes it's just easier to agree with him (when it really doesn't matter) then we get into one of those cold standoff arguments. I tend to just say "Ok" or "Cool" so that the conversation gets shut down. As for checking accounts or your icloud I'm fairly detached, but every now and then something will rear it's ugly head, and I'll whisper b***rd in my head. Nothing to do with wanting him back. More to do with feeling lied to and betrayed. I'd whisper b****rd in my head if I went to work and discovered someone had used my stapler and left me with no stapples.
I get Alison's point too re the walk. I probably wouldn't even go as far as explaining. I'd just say "I'm good, you go". Whilst I tend to just let things slide (these are mostly random comments he makes about the state of the world, people we know etc), when it comes to something that requires an action, I have no issues saying "no" if it doesn't suit.
