I tried but mostly just got yelled at and hung up on. (She was at her mothers when she told me).
Sometimes in life we get yelled at. The mistake you made was letting her hangup on you. Next time she starts yelling, calmly say "I will not tolerate you speaking to me that way." Then hangup.
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