There are now apparently 2 books from this author, (I ordered PDF versions of them today) the second is geared more toward women and about how to get out of Limbo, but with heavy emphasis on making a decision on what the W really wants after understanding her actions and choices and realizing that no matter where she goes or what relationship she is in, the problems will follow until she accepts responsibility for her own happiness and emotions. It also emphasizes that this decision be made WITH the H about where they both want to go.
I am torn if I want my W to read this second book or not. I feel like I should, because it does call the W on all of her BS but it also point blank tells her that the marriage is over and that if she decides to stay with the H they have to decide together what the new R will be and build it all new from scratch. So while I agree with this, it's hard to imagine handing my W a book that in the politest way possible says "You F'ed up and destroyed your marriage, now you have to either walk away or try to build something new". I guess either way, it will be nice to put this behind me.
The books came with some "bonus" materials that sort of pushes something called "EFT Tapping" as some sort of emotional control meditation as a way to help control emotions and make decisions from a place of logic and reason. This supposedly has shown good benefits for PTSD patients. Anyone ever hear of this and/or tried it?
