The Texan, in my sitch I found a book. .... I found the book fascinating.
I have been looking at this and have 1 question: Is this book(s) for just the man, or just the woman, or both? In other words should I let me wife know about this book or is it like the DB'ing book (for the LBS only)?
Mainly for men.
My W read it too. But it is written from the viewpoint of counseling a left behind husband whose wife started an affair and left him.
I'd read it first and then decide if you think your W should read it to. Mine did, and in a way it helped us, because I think she could see I was going to embrace the tough love approach the author supports. But it also hurt us in a way in that she felt kind of justified in what she was/had been doing.
It is insightful. And it also shows that while our behavior didn't help, a lot of this is biologically based.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
