Jimmy I just went back and read all of your post from a year ago March to now. Are you typically a scattered person? I am noticing you would post wanting feedback then disappear for months. Then come back and want advice based on recent history. It makes me wonder how consistent you've been in DBing. You've already shown a penchant for making excuses about basic DB principles.
DBing is about consistency. Every time you have a slip up you go back to square one. That is why when she started acting interested in Ring the answer was to keep DBing. When she started making excuses about the bike ride, you keep on DBing. Always be DBing.
Focus on you. GAL, 180s, and detachment! That is your goal every day. In every action. In every interaction with her.
Have you read DR? If not get the book, read it. MWD lays it out very well. You'll learn about LRT. When you should employ it (and you are there). And how to employ it.
So that is my spiel. The only reason that I even come here and work with LBSs is because I want you to be successful. If not successful in saving your MR, then successful in saving yourself and setting you up for an awesome life! You may not believe this, but your life is going to be awesome no matter what your WAW decides.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
