Saying "I am a nice guy" is one of the first symptoms of NGS. You really need to read No More Mr. Nice Guy. It isn't what you think. In a nutshell, NGS means that you expect certain things because you are nice. So it isn't really just being nice at all, it is manipulation.

YOU CANNOT NICE HER BACK.

And you need to look up what NC and going dark are in relation to kids.

If the communication is about the kids and is important, then respond....BUSNIESS LIKE. If not, no response.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018