So much of that sounds like me it's not even funny. I have not installed any spyware, but I actually wrote an app that would capture all SMS messages and send it to my personal server. I decided against installing it though. I struggle with that decision daily. May I ask what the name of that prog was and if you think I should go though with using it?
I can say I have never had an EA of any sort. I'm not saying I wouldn't have if an opportunity ever presented itself, but with me working from home and not really ever going anywhere, the only women I know are either related to one of us, or W's married friends.
Tell me more about these requirements. How do I determine what they are, but more importantly how do I communicate those to the W without sounding like an ultimatum and how do I enforce them?
I did find the book btw. It looks helpful. Thank you so much.